There are two states of being: the state of ignorance and the state of enlightenment.
People who live in ignorance are not simply aware that their thoughts and actions create their reality. They continue to think and speak negatively and have no idea why they always get what they don’t want in life. They ALWAYS blame others for their unhappiness.
Those who are enlightened knows that they have a choice about how they experience life. They continue to create their reality with their thoughts and words. They take responsibility for making their lives work.
Hot moms are enlightened. They are fully aware that they are the cause of their reality, not the effect, and therefore, see themselves as the creator — not merely a victim of circumstances.
Others might argue that negative thoughts just pop into their minds and have no control over them. Simply because a negative thought comes into your mind doesn’t mean you need to make it real. You don’t have to act on it, identify with it, or believe it. Just refuse to give it energy and let it go.
So here are some mom tips for you. A tall order for being a hot mom is to watch your thoughts and words. Always be aware. Every thought and every word has a vibration that goes out and affects your world like the rippling effect of a pebble thrown into a pond. The more energy and emotion you put behind your thoughts and words, the more it gets manifested into your reality.
In short, shift your thinking and talking from what you don’t want to what you actually want. It’s just rephrasing what used to come out of you. In talking to my kids, I always ask them what they want, or what’s working (instead of what’s wrong), or what could be right. Helps to shift their thinking to see more of the positive. Better train them early.
As always, stay fabulous my hot mom community!
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Thank you for your comment on my BD post. I have heard that about purses too. My grandmother was always superstitious about putting her purse on the floor, so I always try to hang it up. If I have to put it on the floor for some reason I usually put it on a seat cover. Hopefully that keeps it kind of clean.
This is the first time visiting your blog. I really like what you wrote. It is very thought provoking and, I think, very true. Glad I stopped by.
Thanks, Lena. I’m glad you liked it.
A “Hot Mom” means….Having a personal style-one who doesn’t dress too young, nor too old for her age; one who knows it is essential to take the time to get a professional color and cut, to make her look refreshed and younger eventhough she’s busy with family and job; someone who finds the perfect mix of sex appeal and class; a mom who knows the importance of working out-both for her health and looks; she can put all the serious stuff aside and have fun and laugh with her kids; she knows how to be happy, & well-rounded, and finds activities or hobbies that she enjoys, and get out and do it.
Love your definition, Edith. Thanks for sharing!
We are not responsible for the first thought that pops into our head, but we are responsible for the second thought. When I have a negative thought pop into my head, I try to shift into ‘observer mode’. “There’s Debbie, having a silly thought again.” This way I don’t judge myself, and then I quickly replace it with a positive thought. Or several positive thoughts.
Thanks for the great post.
.-= Debbie Lattuga´s last blog ..Gratitude Walk =-.
Great post! I think when you say it’s okay to have a negative thought but don’t have to make it real is key. For me I always have negative thoughts, which I am trying to change, some I make real and some I tell to bugger off. It’s hard to do sometimes. I would love to get to the place where I just ignore the negative side all the time and turn positive.
It’s amazing to me how people love to blame anyone and anything for the negativity when all they need to do is get the courage to look inside themselves. Looking at ourselves is sometimes a painful thing to do at first, but then it becomes a liberating experience. Facing our fears, our doubts, our own issues…. We can do anything if we just believe.
Loved your words- very encouraging.
Blessings,
Eren
.-= Eren Mckay´s last blog ..Sweet Poem for Mother’s Day =-.
Positive thinking is something that I try my best to do. It’s not always easy, but I feel I’ve seen the results of it in the past.
It is so true that most do not realize the power they possess or that it is that very power that is attracting everything they have and that is happening to them, instead in their ignorance they do just as you say blame anyone and everyone else.
If they could only see the light.
“Dream, Believe, Become…”
.-= Tracey Keefer´s last blog ..The Charles Schulz Philosophy! A Theoretical Perspective =-.
It can be scary to think of how much influence we moms have over HOW our children think, and therefore how they perceive the world.
I grew up in a very ‘lack thinking’ household, and have struggled to correct my thinking so as not to pass it on to my kids.
Without this insight, I would be perpetuating all the things I Don’t Want! So glad to know better!
.-= Jacqueline Gates@inner goddess´s last blog ..How I became a Goddess, working for Starbucks for $7 an hour =-.
Great Post!
Nice to know I am a Hot Mom!